{"id":160,"date":"2007-06-29T23:37:35","date_gmt":"2007-06-29T23:37:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/atourcity.com\/bkgoswami.com\/?p=160"},"modified":"2013-10-06T23:39:30","modified_gmt":"2013-10-06T23:39:30","slug":"part-4-being-focused-cont","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/atourcity.com\/bkgoswami.com\/part-4-being-focused-cont\/","title":{"rendered":"Part 4: Being Focused, cont."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-Being Focused &#8211; Novi Sad, Serbia &#8211; June 29_2008&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">The question was also raised about association with devotees. We might find that certain types of association; even with sincere devotees diverts us<br \/>\nfrom our focus.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">The key is to strengthen our focus, and to help others understand that their<br \/>\nneeds are not really being met by being unfocused. In fact when I encounter<br \/>\nassociation that would tend to divert me, by remembering my goals this<br \/>\nchallenge helps me focus more.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">It is similar to when one is attempting to some athletic skill. Without<br \/>\nincreasing the difficulty in the attempt, the strength is not increased.<br \/>\nWeight lifters have to keep increasing the amount of weight that they are<br \/>\nattempting to lift in order to build bigger muscles.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">So, in other words we should welcome challenges as they facilitate us in<br \/>\ngoing inside our own hearts and refocusing on our goals<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">What steps can we take to strengthen our focus? Let me go back to the<br \/>\nexample of the vegetarian society that I visited in Croatia (my visit to<br \/>\nthis society started this whole topic of being focused).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">One of the first things I noticed as I looked around their office were<br \/>\npictures of various animals that had been mistreated by humans in the<br \/>\ncosmetic industry, food industry, pet industry, sport industry etc. There<br \/>\nwere also various slogans around the room which basically stated the same theme: &#8220;Save the animals from torture.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">It was more than a verbal statement though. The combination of the pictures and words went right to the heart and evoked in all present a feeling of disgust and desire to help due to the natural human need for compassion (that is in everyone&#8217;s heart).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">In other words one&#8217;s mission has to go beyond words and be implanted in one&#8217;s heart. In addition it should be very very simple, and one should constantly<br \/>\nremember it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">I know that I stated previously in this blog about being focused and that I<br \/>\nexpressed my mission as follows:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<br \/>\nMy personal mission is to realize my eternal relationship with Krishna and<br \/>\nthereby develop love for Him and all His parts and parcels. My interpersonal<br \/>\nmission is to serve Srila Prabhupada&#8217;s mission eternally by helping the<br \/>\ndevotees and society at large develop a compassionate loving Krishna<br \/>\nconscious society.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">Upon further contemplation I find a need to state my mission more<br \/>\nconcisely-something like: &#8220;Serve Prabhupada and Love Krishna.&#8221; Of course by<br \/>\nusing this short statement I will naturally understand that by loving<br \/>\nKrishna I mean to realize my relationship with him and love Him and all his<br \/>\nparts and parcels. Similarly I will naturally understand &#8220;serving<br \/>\nPrabhupada&#8221; means to help develop his mission as a compassionate mission.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">The short statement makes it almost like a mantra that I can effectively<br \/>\ncontinually meditate on during the day.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">In the business world they generally put the mission statement on the walls<br \/>\nof their offices and factories to remind them of what they are there for.<br \/>\nThis way they are continually reminded of their goals. The most successful<br \/>\nbusiness are the best at doing this.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">In any case our personal mission statement (and society mission statement<br \/>\ntoo) can not simply be words and thoughts. It has to go deep to the heart.<br \/>\nTherefore each and every individual has to come up with one for<br \/>\nherself\/himself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">Krishna consciousness is extremely personal. As long as we are feeling with<br \/>\nour brains the true expression and recognition of our nature, Krishna&#8217;s<br \/>\nnature and our relationships will never be fully understood.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">I was just reading something very interesting this morning about Vaisnava<br \/>\nhistorical literature. Vaisnava historians are not that concerned with<br \/>\nchronology (dates) and super detailed external facts but rather they are<br \/>\nconcerned with the siddhanta and Bhava. Srila Bhaktisiddhanta Sarasvati<br \/>\nThakur even states about one of the foremost Vaisnava historical<br \/>\nliteratures: &#8220;the historical significance of Bhakti-ratnakara is ati alpa &#8212;<br \/>\n&#8216;very small&#8217;.&#8221; Yet he arranged for the publication and wide distribution of<br \/>\nthis book because this book contains the important things for devotees:<br \/>\nsiddhanta, Bhava and information about the holy places in the Navadvipa<br \/>\narea.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">We are usually looking for something that is precise in a scientific sense.<br \/>\nWe spend years learning dates of historical personalities (like Columbus who<br \/>\nin 1492 went to the &#8220;new world&#8221;), yet we never really learn about them; we<br \/>\nonly learn of them and externally what they did. Of course to learn about<br \/>\nthe inner most heart of Columbus would not be helpful for us!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">But to learn about the inner most heart of a Vaisnava would inspire us<br \/>\ntremendously towards pure devotional service to Krishna. The inner most<br \/>\nheart of a Vaisnava is filled with emotions that can only be hinted at with<br \/>\nwords.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">Words that describe bhavas are ascriptive rather than descriptive. A<br \/>\ndescriptive phrase is one for example that describes a particular objective<br \/>\nof an object-for example, &#8220;that desk is black.&#8221; An ascriptive word points to<br \/>\nsomething that can be understood with the heart and is a rough approximation<br \/>\nat best, such as &#8220;I am sad,&#8221; or the overused one by devotees: &#8220;That<br \/>\n[prasadam, kirtan, class, etc.] was ecstatic.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">In other words spirituality and our mission in life has to be heartfelt and<br \/>\nwords can be used to reach the heart, but words are not the heart.<\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><br \/>\n&#8212;&#8212;-end of blog on being focused&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-Being Focused &#8211; Novi Sad, Serbia &#8211; June 29_2008&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212; The question was also raised about association with devotees. We might find that certain types of association; even with sincere devotees diverts us from our focus. The key is to strengthen our focus, and to help others understand that their needs are not really being met <a class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/atourcity.com\/bkgoswami.com\/part-4-being-focused-cont\/\" style=\"text-decoration:underline; color:#18539f;\">read more>><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[46,50,17,27,47,14],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/atourcity.com\/bkgoswami.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/160"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/atourcity.com\/bkgoswami.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/atourcity.com\/bkgoswami.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atourcity.com\/bkgoswami.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atourcity.com\/bkgoswami.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=160"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/atourcity.com\/bkgoswami.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/160\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":162,"href":"https:\/\/atourcity.com\/bkgoswami.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/160\/revisions\/162"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/atourcity.com\/bkgoswami.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=160"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atourcity.com\/bkgoswami.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=160"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atourcity.com\/bkgoswami.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=160"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}